I am new to this site, but wanted to ask why it is suggested to use comments sparingly?

Are comments not to be used to flesh out details of the question? On a tiny scale, they are used to respond to other users, which make the forum more engaging.

Just my two cents.

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    More specifics would be useful.
    – Warren Dew
    Sep 4, 2017 at 23:48

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As a moderator, I typically only suggest that when a comment thread starts getting very long -- when many users (particularly on a HNQ [hot network question]) start chiming in. That can make discussion difficult to follow.

The reason we try to reduce reliance on comments:

  • It's important for additional details from the OP (e.g. "I'm in the United States" or "I'm writing from the perspective of a child, not a parent") to be part of the original question/answer, so other users find that relevant information quickly and easily. I definitely want to see users asking questions to help discover and refine those details, but also want to get them into the main body, not just the fine print.
  • It doesn't help the OP for dozens of people to say "I think you're to blame as the parent" or "Wow, that WAS a dumb thing your kid did" or "why are you worried about this" -- or even positive alternatives "+1 for this amazing idea" (there is voting instead!)
  • Particularly when many people are commenting, it becomes a massive challenge to follow individual conversation threads, even with the @ mentions.
  • Part of StackExchange's fundamental concept is that voting enables better answers to move higher, and poorly written answers to be move lower. Comments can only get upvotes.

The ways we try to reroute that enthusiasm to contribute:

  • Migrating extensive discussion to dedicated chatroom, or generally suggesting Parenting Chat as an alternative. People want to talk, that's super, and there's a place for that! (And we generally prefer migration over deletion, unless migration has already occurred and people are still failing to use chat...)
  • If you've got an answer, write an answer! That brings the full voting and commenting toolset into play, and avoids well-meant and often very good advice being lost in the chatter.

It's a balancing act, and I'll grant that it isn't always perfectly performed. But we try :)

  • How many Mods on this site?
    – user29389
    Sep 1, 2017 at 12:33
  • We've got three (myself, anongoodnurse, and Rory Alsop).
    – Acire
    Sep 1, 2017 at 12:35
  • I agree with the line for a HNQ. I just assumed that was the line here for all question. My bad. " I typically only suggest that when a comment thread starts getting very long -- when many users (particularly on a HNQ [hot network question]) start chiming in." I think this is my first HNQ :-)
    – user29389
    Sep 1, 2017 at 12:36
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    It sometimes comes up on other questions too, but usually when two or three users start arguing -- which isn't productive, but also generally starts violating other rules like Be Nice. Congrats on the dubious honor of asking a HNQ :)
    – Acire
    Sep 1, 2017 at 12:38
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    It's also important to note: This isn't a forum; it's a question/answer site. The purpose is not discussion but rather finding/giving solutions quickly. Sep 12, 2017 at 1:47

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